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How to Choose the Right Builder — Even If You’re Still Just Exploring

  • Cole Borders
  • 3 days ago
  • 2 min read

Choosing a builder is one of the most important decisions you’ll make in the custom home process. But here’s the catch — most people wait too long to bring the builder into the conversation.


They start with designs, dream boards, and budgets... and only then begin “shopping” for someone to build it. By that point, they’re emotionally and financially invested in decisions that may not align with reality.


At Six Arrows, we believe the best builders do more than quote — they guide you from the very beginning.


What to Look for in a Builder (Even Before You’re Ready to Build)


Whether you're six weeks or six months away from starting your project, the right builder will:


  • Ask better questions than they answer.They’ll want to understand your goals, priorities, timeline, and level of decision-making support.

  • Offer a preconstruction process — not just a quote.If they jump straight to price per square foot, you’re not getting a tailored plan — you’re getting a guess.

  • Collaborate with your architect and designer.The best results come when the full team works together — from the start.

  • Speak in terms of alignment, not just construction.A great builder doesn’t just talk about materials and schedules. They talk about vision, values, and how to bring your ideas to life without surprises.


Red Flags to Watch For


  • “We’ll figure it out as we go.”

  • “You’ll make those decisions later.”

  • “This is just a standard bid — upgrades will be extra.”

  • No clear step-by-step process or planning structure


If you hear any of those, it’s time to keep looking.


Our Six Arrows Blueprint™ process was created to give clarity before commitment. Whether you already have a floor plan or are just starting to sketch ideas, The Six Arrows Blueprint™ helps you:

  • Define your goals

  • Understand real-world build costs

  • Plan timelines that work

  • Ensure your architect, designer, and builder are on the same page from day one

We’re not here to rush you. We’re here to guide you — so when you are ready, you’re building from a place of peace, not pressure.

You don’t need to have all the answers to meet with a builder.


You just need the right questions — and someone who can walk with you as you find the answers.


Let’s talk. Whether you’re ready to break

ground or still figuring out what this journey could look like, we’d love to walk you through the Blueprint.


 
 
 

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